I can remember it like it was yesterday, everyday I wake up I wonder why I did what I did because the things I did does not justify who I am as a person. Before it all happened I was on my way home I had to chance to turn right and go home but my heart made me turn my car to the left and go to her house. The whole time I’m driving there i'm scared shocked and mad I felt like I have to have my girl in my life again and why is she doing this to me. It was very tough walking up to her door not knowing if there is someone else at her home. When I got there I was shaking because I knew she was mad but I've always been able to just calm her down by just talking to her face to face because the phone never works with her because I feel like I won’t get the truth unless I see her reactions with her answers. During the time when this all happened I was thinking bout nothing but her and her family and a little upset she wont talk to me. I didn’t understand why she didn’t want to talk to me I was on my knees begging her just to talk and she didn’t want too. I’ve always been the type not to drink never got into like others did so alcohol was not an issue. The first thing I will say that I did wrong off back was going over there I should never went over there and just left it alone. I should have left when she asked at the beginning then I would of never talked to her new girlfriend at the time which provoked me to do what I did. The things I would do differently are just try talking to her on the phone and if she didn’t want to talk then I knew not to go over there. I have never been so hurt in my life I felt like I was losing someone that’s been here forever I felt like I was losing a family member she had my heart.
The anger that I felt was crazy It was so hard to listing to her talk about me to someone else telling them I’m crazy and she hates me knowing she loves me and wanted to be with me the rest of my life. Its crazy because Brittany is the only girl I’ve ever gotten this mad over like really hurt my mind was lost I was ready to throw something or punch something but I would NEVER hit a women so that’s why I picked up her suit case and throw it. I’ve never really had an anger problem besides in sports only because I love to win and hate to loose so my temper is a little short with that but when I came to women I’ve NEVER gotten like that. Most time if I’m mad people that know me just let me be by myself until I cool off. I feel that I have came along way for me not have had acted like that I feel that I’m better then that but I feel like I do need this classes no one ever admits to having a problem I don’t think I do but I’m willing to find out and if I do I really want to get better not just for other people but for myself as a man.
The reason why we have these laws is because it helps keep families safe and helps couples and makes couples not want to do what they did to get them in that situation. For what I did that night I have taken full responsibility for what I did and I know that I was way out of line but I also know I loved that girl with all my heart and that I’ve never had a person love me like she did, but I could never figure out why she left me for a girl I think that hurt me way more than anything. If I wasn’t thinking of my self at the time and thought about all of this I would of took that right instead of that left. This will forever be with me because I made a big mistake by going over there, ill always remember it simply because she was the love of my life and I never want to go down that road again me hoping never to fall that much in love again it’s not good for you. There is really isn’t a good thing that come out of doing something like this besides these classes and having the chance talk bout it and make sure that you know what you did was wrong so in that case there is a good in the criminal justice system.
For the record I am very sorry I made that mistake I just hope everyone understands what love can do to you and for you I felt like either we all are going to go through it or we have because love is apart of life. Even after all this I still love her an want the best for her I wish I could still be there for her and her family know one knows how close me and Brittany really were and it kills me to know its over.
The anger that I felt was crazy It was so hard to listing to her talk about me to someone else telling them I’m crazy and she hates me knowing she loves me and wanted to be with me the rest of my life. Its crazy because Brittany is the only girl I’ve ever gotten this mad over like really hurt my mind was lost I was ready to throw something or punch something but I would NEVER hit a women so that’s why I picked up her suit case and throw it. I’ve never really had an anger problem besides in sports only because I love to win and hate to loose so my temper is a little short with that but when I came to women I’ve NEVER gotten like that. Most time if I’m mad people that know me just let me be by myself until I cool off. I feel that I have came along way for me not have had acted like that I feel that I’m better then that but I feel like I do need this classes no one ever admits to having a problem I don’t think I do but I’m willing to find out and if I do I really want to get better not just for other people but for myself as a man.
The reason why we have these laws is because it helps keep families safe and helps couples and makes couples not want to do what they did to get them in that situation. For what I did that night I have taken full responsibility for what I did and I know that I was way out of line but I also know I loved that girl with all my heart and that I’ve never had a person love me like she did, but I could never figure out why she left me for a girl I think that hurt me way more than anything. If I wasn’t thinking of my self at the time and thought about all of this I would of took that right instead of that left. This will forever be with me because I made a big mistake by going over there, ill always remember it simply because she was the love of my life and I never want to go down that road again me hoping never to fall that much in love again it’s not good for you. There is really isn’t a good thing that come out of doing something like this besides these classes and having the chance talk bout it and make sure that you know what you did was wrong so in that case there is a good in the criminal justice system.
For the record I am very sorry I made that mistake I just hope everyone understands what love can do to you and for you I felt like either we all are going to go through it or we have because love is apart of life. Even after all this I still love her an want the best for her I wish I could still be there for her and her family know one knows how close me and Brittany really were and it kills me to know its over.
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